Jayden Chase Taylor: Happy Mothers Day

Sunday, May 9, 2010

Happy Mothers Day

Jayden is a little fussy today so they ativian that was increased yesterday the Doctor had the nurse to go back up on it cause they thought he was withdrawling from it. Still trying to work with him to suck a pacificer so he can maybe get ready to suck a bottle. He is still on 1/2 liter of oxygen and is doing great on it his sats are stays above 80s. No changes everything still the same just trying to get him ready to go home maybe in a couple of week if everything goes well. Like the doctors tell us no news is good news and everything from this point is good news. Thanks for all of the prayers. HAPPY MOTHERS DAY to all of the mommys

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Barbara Tyo said...: Happy Mothers day to you!! Glad to see and hear Jayden is doing so well:); May 9, 2010 at 7:26 PM

Jayden Chase Taylor

Jayden Chase Taylor was born on Jan 21,2010 and they thought he had a heart murmur so they had him sent to WVU childrens hospital in Morgantown where they found out he had HLHS. HLHS is hypoplastic left heart syndrome is a rare congential heart defect in which the left side is small or underdeveloped. An infant borning with HLHS will not live without the 3 parts of open heart surgery. The syndrome is one of the top three abnormaities to cause problems in newborns. HLHS occurs slightly more often in boys then girls. Jayden was admitted to the NICU ontill the schedules his series of open heart surgery. Jayden was a wek old when Dr. Gus done his first open heart surgery and it was called the Norwood procedure. In this prodcedure the right venticle is used to pump blood into the circulation. The right ventricle is no longer directly pumping blood to the lungs, a shunt is made directly from the right ventricle to the pulmonary circulation. The narrow aorta is enlarged using patch to improve blood flow to the body. Jayden is a very fragile baby and he has a feeding tube because he has a left paralysis vocal cord and it burns all of heart babys calories to suck a bottle. Jayden had is second series of open heart surgery when he was 2 1/2 months. It called the Bi-Directional Glenn prodecure or Hemi-Fontan. In this operation the superior vena cava is ligated from the heart and connected to the pulmonary circulation. During this time may improve quaility of life as the heart dosen't have to work as hard. The third series of open heart surgery will be around 18 months to 3 years and this one is called the Fontan procedure which completes the repair of HLHS. The surgery goal is to seperate the red and blue blood, have the blue blood enter the lungs directly, have the heart as the pump of oxygen rich blood. The three stage Norwood procedure only increase the life of the heart as HLHS cannot be cured. Jayden may need a heart transplant at some point in his lifetime. After his second surgery Jayden is not a fragile baby. Jayden is a very special baby and he is very strong. He is just amazing for what he has been though. Thanks for all the prayers Mommy, Daddy, Katilynn, and Kaleb Love you Jayden

When I became a heart mother...

One day my world
came crashing down,
I'll never be the same.
They told me that
my child was sick...
I thought, am I to blame?
I don't think I can handle this...
I'm really not that strong.
It seemed my heart
was breaking...
As, I'd loved her for so long.
I will not give up on this child...
despite your best "advice".
I will give my child a chance...
No matter what the price.
And I will learn all that I need...
to help my child to thrive.
I'll even use that feeding tube...
My child will survive!
Will he require therapy?
What if he can't gain weight?
Alright God I can do this...
I will not curse our fate.
The feeding pump beeps,
at 3:00 a.m.
It serves as my reminder...
How many parents would
welcome that sound?
Tomorrow Lord,
I will be kinder.
Another angel earns
their wings...
and I run to my sleeping
child's bed...
I watch her then, for
quite awhile...
Bend down and kiss her head
Then I cry for the parents
whose lives have been broken,
And I look to God
wondering why?
Oh Lord, I just can't
know your ways...
No matter how I try.
And yet, I trust You to
hold her life,
And guide us through
each day
My mind says savor each
moment she's here...
But my heart whispers,
"Please let her stay".
From... pacing the
surgical waiting room...
to sitting by her hospital bed...
From... wishing for a
good night's sleep...
to learning every med...
From wondering will
he be alright?
to watching him reach
out his hands.
With every smile, my
heart just melts..
despite life's harsh demands
For all who see
that faded line...
I look to them and smile...
You see, my child is
loved so much...
I would face any trial.
That same scar I trace
with my finger...
It's the door to her
beautiful heart
I never guessed how
much I'd love her...
Just as YOU loved her
right from the start
A heart mom is
always a heart mom...
Now wise beyond her years
And for those who have
angels in heaven...
Our hearts share in
all of your tears.
Everyday I will strive
to remember...
You chose me for her
and no other
And I will embrace
that beautiful day...
When I became a "heart mother".

~Stephanie Husted

What does it mean to be a mother?

It's that very first moment,
He's placed in your arms,
A wrinkled red face,
Filled with so many charms,
You can't help but cry,
(As a new mother knows)
You've been waiting so long,
Just to count all his toes,
Then visitors come,
Bearing gifts that are blue,
And they laugh, and snap pictures,
Saying, "He looks like you."
And in just a few days,
(Ahh... the joy and the fun)
You'll be on your way home,
With your beautiful son.

What is it like to be a heart mother?
Again, it's that moment,
You hold your child close,
And cry secret tears,
That a heart mother knows.
In just a few days,
Maybe less,maybe more,
You'll be letting him go,
Asking, what lies in store?
And as your child lays,
In a small isolette,
You think to yourself,
I must not get upset,
And as family arrives,
You try hard to stay strong,
But your tired eyes say,
That this all seems so wrong.
You know what is coming,
Though your still not prepared,
He will leave your safe arms,
To have his heart repaired.

What does it mean to be a mother?

It is nights with no sleep,
It is feedings and spit up,
It is watching him roll,
And then finally sit up.
It is knowing this child,
Depends on you most,
It's those everyday milestones,
in which, you can boast.
And yes... there is crying,
(At time's it's quite loud)
But when he says,, "Mama".
He makes you so proud.

A heart mother...

Ahh.. yes little rest,
As the monitors beep,
And you begin to question,
Is there such thing as sleep?
And you can't go home yet,
And your kid's ask each day,
"Will we see you soon mommy?
Can you come home and play?
Real soon... you promise,
Yes...I miss you too",
And then people ask,
How you do what you do.
And you stroke his forehead,
And his fist is unfurled,
And you know for this child,
You would give all the world.

A mother...

Time passes quickly,
Soon he's off to school,
And before you know it,
Hugs just aren't "cool",
He's a teenager now,
With dreams of his own,
And one day it hits you,
My child, has grown.
And though you are proud,
For all he's achieved,
Life passed more quicly,
Than you could have believed.

A heart mother...

You've always strived to live each day,
As if it were the last,
As the mother of a heart child,
You know things can change fast.
You've seen so many familes,
Endure things you can't understand,
And while you trust that God is good,
Sometimes you just don't understand.
But you go on, because you must,
God chose you for him, and no other,
Your stronger that you could imagine,
You have become a heart mother.

Every mother...

And every mother's journey,
Begins on that day when,
She knows with everything she is,
A mother, she has always been.
Crayon marks cover all the walls ,
Muddy prints scatter the floor,
Toys and messes everywhere,
And yes... laundry galore.
I must have the best job that there is,
(Despite all the clutter and mess)
My children.. they remind me,
Life shouldn't be such a stress.
Each and every day we have,
(To laugh, to hug, to play)
Is a memory I'll always have,
And nothing, can take that away.
I wouldn't trade a moment,
Or all that they've taught me to see,
I'm blessed to be a mother,
It's more than I'd dreamed it could be.

~Stephanie Husted

Sunday, May 9, 2010

Happy Mothers Day

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